The influencer commented on how standards influence female perception and highlighted a more conscious and less idealized view of one’s own image.
Influencer Geise Alves decided to directly address a topic that is often softened on social media when discussing female beauty. In her speech, she argues that the issue goes beyond personal taste or self-esteem and involves construction, conscious choices, and how image impacts the treatment women receive daily.
Known for calling herself a “trophy wife,” Geise stated that the label has never been a problem, but rather a point of reflection on image and positioning.
“When you are with a high-level man, you naturally want to be up to par, not out of obligation, but by choice. There is a desire to look good, to present yourself well alongside him, and that is also valued,” she said.
Despite her current confidence in her discourse, her aesthetic journey includes delicate episodes. One of them occurred during a breast implant surgery that didn’t have the expected result.
“In the third surgery, something went very wrong. The result was severely compromised, with scars… it was a really botched job,” she recalled. According to her, the impact was profound on her self-esteem. “For a while, I didn’t feel comfortable even in front of my husband. I even avoided looking at myself,” she said.
The experience ended up redefining her relationship with her own body. “It’s not just about appearance. It’s about how you feel inside your own body,” she stated, clarifying the change in perspective on cosmetic procedures.
When talking about beauty standards, Geise adopts a direct tone. She acknowledges that her image is not just the result of genetics, but of a continuous process of care and interventions.
“Without romanticizing, my beauty was built. It came from diet, training, consistency, and procedures that accelerated the process,” she reported. And she added: “Natural beauty helps. But high-level beauty requires maintenance. Whoever says otherwise either hasn’t reached that point or isn’t being honest.” This perspective also altered how she views the impact of appearance on social and professional relationships.
“The world treats you differently depending on how you present yourself. People listen to you more, respect you more,” she assessed. In this context, she revealed that she has redefined her own skincare routine: “Getting ready is no longer just vanity. It’s become a strategy.”
Geise further detailed the treatments she considers part of this aesthetic maintenance, always focusing on balance.
“It’s worth investing in what improves skin quality and structure. Laser, collagen biostimulators, frequent Botox, and well-done fillers, without exaggeration,” she pointed out. She also considered surgeries. “Silicone implants, for example, change the self-esteem of many women. But if it’s not done well, it destroys more than it helps,” she warned.
For her, the true difference between the women she admires is not in visual ostentation, but in the consistency of their care. “It’s not about spending a lot, it’s about not neglecting yourself. The difference is rarely in the clothes, it’s in the level of care you maintain,” she observed.
Finally, Geise acknowledged that she has been influenced by external references when making aesthetic decisions, but today she views this behavior with more caution: “I used to think I could get close to a certain standard by looking at other women. And that’s dangerous. Wanting to evolve is healthy. Now, wanting to become someone else always ends badly.”
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