Susan Grau, one of the most renowned spiritual mediums with a career spanning over three decades, is set to release her new book, Infinite Life, Infinite Lessons, published by Hay House in July 2024. Susan’s remarkable journey is marked by a near-death experience in childhood, which not only shaped her personal path but also established her as a respected authority in the field of mediumship and spiritual healing.
Internationally known for her exceptional skills and profound insights into the spiritual world, Susan has been featured in prominent media outlets such as Gwyneth Paltrow’s GOOP, Elle, The Hollywood Reporter, and Vancouver Sun News. Her reputation is further reinforced by her inclusion in the Famous Mediums Directory and James Van Praagh’s list of preferred mediums.
Infinite Life, Infinite Lessons reflects Susan’s compassionate and intuitive approach to spiritual healing. Combining personal accounts, reflective guidance, and practical exercises, the book provides an accessible guide to transcendence and spiritual growth. With her unique ability to connect with the spiritual realm, Susan invites readers to explore and deepen their own spiritual journey, offering a valuable and transformative perspective on self-awareness and personal evolution.
Your near-death experience was a significant turning point in your life. How did this experience shape your journey as a spiritual medium and influence the way you perceive the spiritual world?
My near-death experience was one of the most defining events of my existence. It felt as though the veil that separates us from the afterlife had been lifted, and I had been granted a glimpse of the love, peace, and connectedness \that all of us are destined for.
I felt the most powerful sense of unimaginable love and complete acceptance in the space between life and the afterlife. I encountered beings of light, non-verbal but full of vibrant energy. I telepathically received messages of hope, healing, and clarity about our eternal soul.
This experience defined my perception of the spirit realm. I recognized that our physical reality is one chapter of an infinite story and that I am a spiritual being having a human experience and a human being having a spiritual experience. I was so young at the time of my NDE that I didn’t understand it in totality; however, as I grew older, I gained a clear awareness of the purpose of our journey.
Later in life, this experience empowered me to connect to the other side; it reinforced that love is the fabric that connects us all, that it is the ‘thread’ that connects our past, present, and future, here and in the afterlife. As an intuitive medium, I recognize the energy of the spirits that visit us. This creates an ability to connect with them while releasing all my fears and limiting beliefs. My near-death experience taught me that our loved ones who leave this consciousness are here and never gone.
As a medium I am able to connect that ‘thread’ between my client and their loved one to bring a level of comfort, compassion, and empathy, to the grieving, There is peace in knowing that our loved ones are still here with us and only a heartbeat away.
It is this knowledge that guides my mediumship. I’ve discovered that we are never alone, that those in the spirit realm remain with us, leading and directing us, and that the messages I receive are, in part, the echoes of the love and wisdom I experienced during my NDE.
I impart this message of hope and eternal union with every reading I do. I want people to see beyond the physical to the fact that we are all connected and part of something greater, that the soul is eternal, and we all have access to this wellspring of divine love and light.
My brush with death was my gift, a momentary glimpse of our infinite life that continues into infinite journeys. I am more committed to my work, gentler in my soul, and more convinced than ever that we are all connected through time and space to all things as one consciousness.
In your new book, “Infinite Life, Infinite Lessons,” you offer a roadmap to transcendence. Can you tell us more about what motivated the writing of this book and how you hope it will help your readers explore their own spiritual path?
The motivation behind writing this book stems from my own journey. Throughout my life experiences, I suffered, deep loss, and grief. My near-death experience was the catalyst for opening my eyes to a greater understanding of the mysteries that exist on the other side.
I wanted to create a roadmap for others, guiding them to a better understanding of their heart’s desires and of the healing energy of the spirit world. We all have loss which creates broken hearts. I recognized the importance of teaching the interplay between spirit consciousness and human consciousness for healing our pain.
This book is meant to be a companion for those seeking to heal, grow, and explore their spiritual paths. My inspiration was to illuminate the truth of our spiritual connection through the lessons and insights I shared. My goal is for the reader to find comfort, understanding, and deeper healing through connecting to the spirit world.
Infinite Life, Infinite Lessons, brings forth wisdom from the spirit world on living, dying, and the in-between. My goal was for the reader to embrace their humanity while recognizing the infinite wisdom and love that our souls carry, allowing us to face life’s challenges with grace and resilience.
Additionally, as an intuitive medium and grief specialist I have been honored to witness countless stories of pain and growth These experiences inspired me to share the tools and practices that have helped many find peace and clarity. I believe that our souls are the vine to the divine; therefore connecting into the energy of Source, provides a constant flow of spiritual oneness and healing. Despite life’s challenges, our souls are never damaged and remain pure, offering us the strength to heal and grow through our experiences.
In Infinite Life, Infinite Lessons, I also explore the concept of reincarnation within soul families. This understanding helps us see the bigger picture of our existence and the loving connections that transcend lifetimes.
My book shows the reader where to shine their light (on themselves), and how to heal the pain and complexities of their journey, offering guidance, hope, and a sense of empowerment. Through the stories, exercises, and integration moments, my goal was to help others awaken to their true potential, and embrace their unique journey. Guiding them to clarity and understanding, they too can discover the beauty of the afterlife in all its complexities and find the infinite lessons awaiting them all.
You mention that past life regression can be a healing tool. How do you believe exploring past lives can help people understand and heal from near-death experiences or other spiritual challenges?
Past life regressions can be a powerful healing modality that allows us to uncover and gain clarity on the deeper layers of our soul’s journey. When we experience grief or face other significant spiritual challenges, our reactions and feelings can often be traced back to unresolved issues or lessons from past lives.
By exploring past life memories, people can gain insights into patterns, fears, or traumas influencing their current lives. This awareness can bring a sense of clarity and understanding, helping them to release old wounds and embrace healing. For example, if someone has an unexplained fear or emotional block, past life regression can reveal the origin of that fear, allowing them to confront and heal with compassion and forgiveness.
Furthermore, past life regression can provide a broader perspective on our spiritual path. It helps us recognize the interconnectedness of our experiences and the continuity of our soul’s growth. This understanding can be especially comforting for those who have had near-death experiences, as it affirms the existence of a soul journey beyond our physical life.
Healing through past life exploration is about integrating the lessons learned across lifetimes. It helps us see the recurring themes and challenges we have faced. Therefore, empowering us to break free from limiting cycles and make conscious choices aligned with our highest good. This process not only aids in healing from past traumas but also fosters a deeper connection with our true selves and our purpose in this lifetime.
Past life regression serves as a tool for soul discovery and healing. It offers a pathway to understanding our present. Illuminating and opening the gateway to our past that remains in our subconscious mind, we are then offered insight into the answers we seek in this lifetime. It allows us to embrace the full spectrum of our existence, leading to greater self-awareness, spiritual growth, and a more harmonious life. It is a powerful healing modality that I recommend to all.
How have your personal experiences and insights been incorporated into the practical exercises and reflective guidance in “Infinite Life, Infinite Lessons”? Can you share an example of how a specific exercise might benefit readers?
The lessons from my life are at the heart of the practical exercises and reflective guidance I provide in, Infinite Life, Infinite Lessons. I have consciously shaped each exercise to reflect the lessons I have learned throughout my life while healing from loss. Through these exercises, I gained more clarity about the pain layers and patterns I created to survive the loss. While facing this pain, I was able to begin relearning how to listen to the still, small voice of my inner self and strength.
For example, one of the exercises of grief work is a method of dealing with those parts of one’s suffering that we keep hidden and tucked away. It was based on my own experiences of facing heavy personal loss and healing. Encouraging readers to sit with their grief and begin the healing process through these exercises, might help them move toward a place of greater awareness, healing, self-acceptance, and emotional independence.
One exercise recommends that you write a letter to that part of yourself that feels so much pain that the struggle is overwhelming; the part of your pain that tells you survival is impossible. In doing so, you begin to recognize your fears, reset the messages, and emotions you haven’t been able to resolve, and engage with that part of you that is in resistance; allowing it to be seen and heard and thereby heal and grow. The exercise provides a safe space to gain self-awareness and express compassion and love to that wounded person you have become from this painful experience.
Through these exercises, I hope to provide readers with the tools needed to navigate their paths with greater clarity and inner peace, much like I have on my own journey. The practical application of these insights can lead to profound personal growth and a deeper connection to one’s true self and offer the knowledge that one can heal regardless of the loss.
You are recognized for your skills and insights in the spiritual world and have been featured in various media outlets. How have these highlight experiences influenced your approach to spiritual work and to your book?
My recognition as a spiritual healer and medium, and my work with media professionals both in television and radio, has fundamentally shifted how I present spiritual work, and how I wrote my book, Infinite Life, Infinite Lessons. Through all my personal experiences of healing tremendous grief and pain, I ‘braved the path less taken,’ and began to share my trauma and healing process in much more depth.
The most important aspect of my approach was a vulnerability to my own painful life experiences which I believe aids in helping others to recognize they are not alone in their battles and suffering, and that there is a pathway to healing.
With every media appearance and acknowledgment, I have been offered the opportunity to spread my message to more and more people suffering their own grief; a message of healing, compassion, and spiritual growth, to those who might otherwise never have heard it.
This public visibility has prompted me to recommit to being true and pure to my work, to honor the truth of my calling, which is to help people get in touch with their inner strength through healing and to understand the world of spirit more clearly.
Reaching a larger audience has informed the direction of my teaching and the tools I developed in the book. As I saw the responses from those my tools and life story helped, I realized that I could offer this hope to a wide range of people, a practical toolbox, so to speak, filled with tools that made sense for healing pain and loss.
Knowing that so many people were touched by my work brought me hope and pushed me forward to honor my work as a healer. As I continued to share my stories of grief, and loss I recognized a transformative healing taking place for myself and others, a healing that is available to us all.
For example, one of the highlighted moments of the book came from a daughter in her own words. She wrote about a live reading I gave where I connected this daughter to her father who had passed away and delivered a message from him. The reaction of the viewers and the daughter’s gratitude highlighted the desire for healing and connection that I’ve tried to carry through to the reflective exercises and stories throughout the book.
I hope that by combining my real-life experiences with the stories in the book, I can provide healing. My mediumship serves as a reminder that we’re not alone in our journey, even in our darkest moments.
What do you find most challenging about explaining mediumship and spirituality concepts to a broader audience? How do you address these challenges in your work and writing?
Explaining mediumship and spiritual concepts to a broader audience can be challenging, primarily because of skepticism and preconceived notions. Many people might doubt or misunderstand what mediumship truly involves.
In my work and writing, I tackle these challenges by grounding my explanations in personal experiences. Sharing my own journey as an intuitive medium makes these concepts more relatable and authentic. I also strive for clarity and simplicity, breaking down complex spiritual ideas into everyday language so that they are easier to grasp.
Empathy and compassion are at the heart of my approach. I understand that spirituality is deeply personal and sensitive, and I honor the diverse beliefs and experiences of my audience. By creating a safe and respectful space, I invite exploration and understanding.
To add depth to my explanations, I sometimes reference scientific studies, historical context, and cross-cultural perspectives. This broader view helps to validate spiritual experiences and show their universal relevance.
Engaging with my readers is essential. I encourage them to reflect on their own experiences and intuition, inviting them to meditate or try specific exercises. This personal engagement helps them discover their own spiritual insights and connections.
In blending these elements, my aim is to create a narrative that is both informative and transformative, offering understanding and appreciation for the transformative nature of mediumship and the spirit world.
What are the key lessons you have learned throughout your more than three-decade career as a spiritual medium? How are these lessons reflected in your new book and in your daily practice?
Over my years as a intuitive medium, grief specialist, and counselor, I have learned countless lessons, each shaping and refining my understanding of the spiritual realm and our place within it. One of the most profound lessons is the unbreakable connection between our physical and spiritual selves. This connection reminds us that we are never truly alone; our loved ones, our guides, and the divine are always with us, supporting and guiding us through our life’s journey.
I’ve also learned the importance of compassion and empathy. Every person I meet carries their own unique burdens and joys, and approaching each interaction with a heart full of understanding and kindness is essential. This practice not only helps in providing accurate and healing messages but also fosters a deep sense of trust and healing between myself and those I connect with.
Another key lesson is the power of vulnerability. Sharing my own experiences, my losses, and my near-death experience, has opened doors for others to share theirs. This mutual exchange of stories and emotions creates a powerful healing environment where true changes can occur. Vulnerability is not a weakness; it is a gateway to deeper connections and understanding.
I’ve also come to appreciate the delicate balance between skepticism and belief. Healthy skepticism keeps us grounded and questioning, ensuring that our experiences are genuine and not clouded by wishful thinking. However, belief opens the doors to possibilities beyond our understanding. Navigating this balance has allowed me to maintain integrity and authenticity in my practice.
In my daily practice, these lessons are interconnected into every reading and every exchange. I bring my whole heart to the table, listening as deeply as possible to my clients’ soulful and physical energies. I work to meet them where they are, to see, hear, and understand them in the ways they need to be seen, heard, and understood. I strive to foster an environment of healing and growth along with healthy exchange.
An intuitive medium’s path is one of constant learning. I am reminded every day of the incredible wisdom and love the spirit world has to offer, and it is an honor to share this with those I offer my services to. In my book and my daily practice, I strive to inspire others to tap into their own spiritual truths and find healing in the knowledge that we are all a part of something far greater than ourselves.
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